Memories, a small word that could carry
the burden of a whole life. Every passing year, each
passing day, every moment that passes
away, turns to a memory. Some are good, some are
bad, some are uneventful. Past is
something that we are always told to not to live in, but we
never find a way past our past, as John
Banville said, " The past beats inside me like a second
heart. "
It is said that past always finds its
way to present, and what better way could be there to invade
than memories. We all have our blur
memories of toddling, a bit more sharp memories of
reluctantly going school. Then we have
memories of schools and friends that no memory could
replace, and are memories of college
life. Apart from these, we have lots of unforgettable
moments with family. So much for a
single word - memory.
So, what is the significance of the
memories or past? We all want to preserve pleasant
moments, and lose, erase the unpleasant
ones. But to be true, we all are result of what we did
in past. And bad memories are also as
responsible as good memories. To make it more clear, I
will use another word for memory, a less
pleasant one, that is EXPERIENCE. At this moment, I
would again like to borrow a quote from
my memories, " Mistakes are result of lack of
experience, and experience is a result
of mistakes in past. "
There's a proverb in English, "why
cry over the cat spilt milk". It means there is no use resenting
what happened for it can't be changed.
Same goes with memories, but for both good and bad
memories. Continuously recalling good
memories won't retrieve them, nor the bad memories will
be erased or changed by crying over it.
Experience is a name given to the memory
of every step you tread. We all learnt something in
the years we have spent living. And on
the basis of our adventures, our experience is judged. It
won't be false to say that since our
first step, till our last breath we gain experience. Anything we
can do is based on our experience or
knowledge of others' experience. I would call it enough
talk on experience, so let's return to
memories.
Memories also serve a purpose different
from whatever we have discussed till now. This
purpose is to allow the deads to be
alive. No, not as zombies, but in form of imagery, in one's
memories. It could easily be noticed,
for we all have memories of our loved ones. And we never
want to lose them. As Shakespeare said,
*not marbled nor the guilded monuments", no building,
no monument could outlast the memory.
It's fair to have memories, it's even
better to learn from them but the best is to create them.
Creating memories is similar as shaping
future, if you get the knowledge of it, no challenges
could sever you. On this note, I will
conclude my text in one sentence, " Memories are way to
past
and key to future. ",
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